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M: I hope I'm not being too personal, but I was wondering if your girlfriend ever joins you in feminizing a sissy?
: If I didn't want to answer that you wouldn't be here, but you are! How does it feel honey? How does it feel to be here for everyone to see, hmm? (But I digress).
Putting together a complete outfit for someone, then helping with their makeup and hair, is about as appealing to her as rebuilding an engine in a cold garage. She has been into the fetish scene for a long time, and we share all kinds of things together, but this is not one of them.
There seems to be three common reactions from women regarding this fetish. Unfortunately for you, the most common is that it is ridiculous. These are the women that see you in the lingerie section of a store, trying not to drool on yourself, and consider calling security. They cannot imagine how someone could be sexually aroused by wearing or being forced to wear feminine clothing, and think the whole idea is both wrong and possibly sick. That's just the way it is. I'm not saying that they're right, in fact these people are usually very closed minded about everything, and drive ugly cars and wear panties with little sayings on them.
Then we have the more open minded women, who are willing to experiment and get a little kinky to make things interesting, as well as try to make their partner happy. This is a great opportunity for you because at least they're willing to try. The problem is that you are often so preoccupied with your own fantasy that you forget to make it enjoyable for her. Without some kind of incentive, or reward for this wonderful woman, it will most likely become a chore and at best a once in a while treat for you.
Surprisingly, this is also tough for many pro and lifestyle Dommes to enjoy. I know of more than one that told me that they're just not comfortable with it. Its almost as if they are worried that they cant do a good enough job. Yes-women are as insecure as you sometimes.
The third reaction is found among a select few that have discovered the secret formula. They understand the attraction, know exactly what to do to push your buttons like a rocket scientist, and best of all they enjoy it! They enjoy being in control of your body and mind. They find pleasure in having you at their mercy and willing to do anything they ask. And if you're lucky, very lucky, it might even turn them on enough to keep doing it!
There are millions of beautiful, single women out there that would be very happy to take you shopping or lend you their dress if you were a good companion and treated them right. Not every relationship has to be based on sex. Your mission, should you accept it, is to find these women!
In the interest of science, I have been working on the formula and will share it as needed.
