A: I wonder whether its customary for sissies to be encouraged to suck cock? Is this something that’s assumed is best for those of us who are susceptible to feminine persuasions? I suppose this is all one question, and centers on the seemingly prevalent tendency to steer the sissy towards sucking cock. Thus, is this to validate the sissy’s emulation of the female, by encouraging them to do as a female generally is expected to do?
: That’s a great question (although I’m sure there was an easier way to ask it).
This recently published pie chart might make things a little clearer.
There is no right answer for everyone, and unless you join a club with a secret handshake and other customs, its up to each person to decide what they like and need. I know that for many people this is a big deal, and important to complete their fantasy. I’ve also met many, many others, who want absolutely nothing to do with it. Not only do they have no desire to be with a man in any way, but having one anywhere nearby completely ruins it for them. This seems to include the majority of the crossdressers I’ve met. (A lot of people have even asked me to please leave cock sucking out of my stories). Their fantasy of being teased at a lingerie shop, or embarrassed at a beauty salon, does not involve men at all. And its just a given to these people that none will be around.
Correct me if I’m wrong (except for the spelling of crossdresser), but this is what I’ve concluded based on my experience. I think that the stereotype of a man wearing women’s clothes, and being fucked up the ass, or sucking off a room full of other men, is something many straight crossdressers find extremely disturbing.
Women sometimes ask me; “Well-where do they draw the line? If they like to walk, talk, and dress like a girl, it seems like the next step would be obvious?” But I know better.
You may tell me that you want to be completely feminized and humiliated, but only to a certain degree, and I fully understand. You might even want to be dressed in a silky pink baby doll, stockings, heels, a wig and makeup, and beg me in a very feminine voice, to fuck you up the ass with my strap-on. But you don’t want a man to do it, and I understand that too.
Each person has his own unique fantasy and set of conditions that must be met in order to make it work for them. What is a lifelong desire for one may be a total turn off for another. Several things are usually common to both with this fetish though, such as the desire to be embarrassed and/or humiliated, as well as being “forced” to dress as a girl. Or a maid, or a cheerleader, or a naughty little slut.
If you did ask me to bring in a guy for you to please, I would tell you to do that on your own time. (It is in some of my stories because it was requested). I do not have a problem with it at all, but I’m not a pimp, and I do have to draw the line somewhere myself. I usually draw it around your lips with a dark red lip pencil.